How husbands and wives should conduct themselves in their family lives

Themes: apostolic times, families, forgiveness, God's love and mercy, heaven, loving God, loving others, Rosary, trials and tribulations
Father God, Jesus Christ, Mother Mary

Jesus Christ

Thank you my daughter Fernanda for sitting with me, with your Jesus Christ, my Father God, the Holy Spirit and my Blessed Mother Mary. My little one, I, your Jesus Christ, I am here to converse with you.

Thank you for today. You rested more than usual this morning. I allowed you this rest in your body. Thank you for coming to my Holy Mass and to help my son priest Fr Joseph at the healing Mass. He is my devoted son priest, using his gifts of the Holy Spirit that were given to him.

Oh, there is so much healing needed in my children’s lives. My children are going through life with so much upon their shoulders. If only my children would learn to give me their burdens and offer them at the foot of the cross. My children carry them without giving them to me. Sometimes they give them to me and then go back to take it back, not trusting in me, their Jesus Christ. They forget these strong words as they repeat, but not meaning them as they say them: “Jesus I trust in you.” Yes, they must say these words from the bottom of their hearts. When my children offer their burdens to me they must not look back and take them back to carry again. I love my dear children − if only my children believe and trust me, their loving Jesus Christ.

My child, my Blessed Mother Mary is here to converse with you

Mother Mary

My dear child Fernanda, I, your Mother Mary come to you at this hour. I came to relay a message for you to convey to my children. I am your Mother Mary, my dear children. I am a loving, faithful Mother to each one of you. I love you dearly. My dear children, I came to ask you: come live, abide, in my Son’s loving heart, his Sacred Heart. My Son is waiting patiently for each one of you. When he died on the cross for the love of each one of you, he did not pick and choose anyone.

Oh, look at each one of you: your sins, horrendous, miserable sins that were repugnant to his Sacred Heart, but he accepted all for the love of each one of you. My children, remember the lives of the saints. My children should read and acquire more knowledge about their lives. They should follow their example. My heart pounds for you my children. Many saints went through rough seas, tribulations, hardships, persecutions and trials but they were very obedient in not offending my Son Jesus Christ.

St Joseph, my chaste spouse, was a family man, a carpenter. He also was the provider, the head of our house, our home. He also went through pains and sufferings as a married man. A spouse, taking care of his spouse Mary and his foster Son Jesus Christ.

Yes, when he knew that I was pregnant he was very hurt because he knew we did not have a married relationship. He was very much in pain, but he acted with dignity, not saying much to me. He respected: he did not use foul language, he was crying in the silence of his heart, not telling anyone. Yet afterwards, as the angel Gabriel gave him the news in a dream that he must not fear, that I was going to bear a Son through the power of the Holy Spirit, he was also obedient in carrying his task. He did not want me to have a bad reputation, a bad name. He became my spouse and married me. He continued to be a chaste spouse, loving husband and a good father to my Son Jesus Christ.

My children, most of you know what happened in the interim, that we had to run to Bethlehem from Nazareth for my Son to be born. He was born poor to set the example to all of you my children. I want you my children to be submissive to your husbands, and vice versa respect one another, love one another, forgive one another’s mistakes, errors and faults committed during the day or during their lives. Don’t bring the past to the present.

We, the Holy Family of Nazareth, are the patron saints of families. Pray my dear children for our intercessions to amend your broken hearts, marriages, relationships and wounds of the past. Follow our footsteps. Live in harmony, peace, love and understanding. Teach your children as we did to our Son Jesus Christ. We set upon him our example. As I have said to you before, we also had many trials and tribulations as a normal family but before the sun came down, it was sorted out with words and understanding. Foul language, anger, hatred and unforgiveness in a marriage does not solve the disapprovals between one another.

The key is to pray the Rosary as a family. Teach our little ones to pray, to be obedient as Baby Jesus was. Don’t judge one another, point fingers, accuse one another’s faults and errors from the past, or bring family faults against one another.

My dear children, be faithful always in your conversations. Honesty is very important, my precious children. Pray for unity in families. Pray the prayer of the Holy Family of Nazareth [1]. Follow the example of the saints. Your lives will be a different way of thinking. Strive for a good family, a holy home with love − as your hearts met on the same day of your lives together.

I bless you my children with my love, the love of the Family of Nazareth. Amen.

Thank you my child Fernanda. Pray for many broken marriages, families in pain because of status or because of earthly things or unforgiveness of past issues. My children must let go of the past and start afresh for a better future for their little ones. They must leave behind pride and arrogance in their marriage. They must make Jesus Christ the centre of their marriage.

I bless you, I give you all the blessings to your loved ones and all of my children. Amen. Thank you for responding to my call. Amen.

[Fernanda] Thank you my loving Mother Mary. I love you, sua bênção [2]

Father God

My child, I, your Father God, I am here with you. I came to relay this message.

My dear people, I your Father, I see my Son Jesus Christ going through the same pains. His hand is coming down. My people: some of them are praying to hold up my Son Jesus’ hand. My people are in turmoil and confusion against one another. My people are looking for the impossible in their lives without God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit in their lives. They are lost in their lives. My people don’t see with the eyes of their heart. They are seeing with their eyes of the flesh.

My little ones are following their loved ones’ examples. If only my people would do their duty: teach them from a young age and be the example in their lives. But many children are in marriages of turmoil. The little ones are suffering consequences because they see quarrels, disunity, anger, unforgiveness and bitterness from their past mistakes. The little ones are torn between their loved ones, yet they can see the right and the wrong in their parents, but they are not allowed or are fearful to interfere and say what they are feeling. Do not put my little ones to the test in their families. Their trauma is very painful, what they sometimes witness in fear or panic. Fathers and mothers: be attentive in front of your (our) little ones. Be like a family of Nazareth. My Son Jesus Christ followed his parent’s good teachings. Peace, love, unity and forgiveness in families is the most important health remedy for my little ones to one day form their own families. Listen attentively to the deep cry of our children, our innocent ones.

I am your Father God. I am the Father of the truth, the light, the peace and love: merciful, kind hearted, forgiving, loving each one of my people, my creation. This is a Father’s love. Live by example for a better generation to come and [reap] the reward that you will have one day in heaven, written in the Book of Heaven at the Banquet of the Lamb.

I give you my peace, my peace I give you, your loved ones and all of my people. Amen.


[2] Portuguese to English translation: your blessing