Heavenly advice on how to live happily in marriage till death do us part

25/06/2017
Themes: apostolic times, families, forgiveness, God's love and mercy, Holy Communion, Holy Mass, loving God, loving others, praying, purgatory, Repentance and Confession, Rosary, sins of the world, trials and tribulations
Father God, Jesus Christ, Mother Mary

Jesus Christ

Thank you, my daughter Fernanda, for sitting with me your Jesus Christ, my Father God, the Holy Spirit and my Blessed Mother Mary. My little one, I, your Jesus Christ, I am here with you, I thank you for today, the lovely day, the lovely day with my children, Idalina and João’s 50th wedding anniversary. It was a beautiful celebration, with my Holy Mass. My son priest, he did a beautiful homily and the teaching about being married for these long years.

Yes, today, my children, they take their vows of marriage without the proper love and understanding that marriage is not for a short period of time. Marriage vows say “Till death do us part”, but my children don’t seriously vow these words, not meaning them from their hearts. Marriage is a serious responsibility between one another − they should take time reflecting and they have to be taught the consequences, the trials, hardships, tribulations in the course of their lives. It takes both of them to forgive each other’s mistakes and errors in the course of their daily lives. My children before marriage must think together and vow to each other that:

  • Whatever happens or comes their way in their lives, these beautiful words “I love you” should be respected at all times and must come from their heart, not from their mouth. Saying, if they have done wrong, “I am sorry, I ask for forgiveness” from their heart, not from the mouth.
  • They must never leave their bedroom and go to another room in times of their trials, arguments and disunity. Their bedroom and their bed are sacred.
  • As the day they were married, never to go to sleep sulky and talk whatever is in their hearts, not in argumentative way, but to explain to one another in truth.
  • They must be true and faithful to one another, never envying the neighbour’s wife and vice versa, being faithful at all times, talking openly to one another about what’s in their hearts that needs to be said.

Yes, marriage, it’s not just like their first day of marriage. Every day there are hardships, obstacles, illnesses, sicknesses, wins, loses and failures. It’s part of this world.

With their children, there must be respect [between each other], teaching them by their example. Do not quarrel in front of my little ones: it’s very painful for their little hearts − they are torn between their parents. There must be mutual understanding in dealing with certain issues. Don’t accuse one another about the past and don’t bring up yesterday’s (and the long years before’s) mistakes and errors. When my children repent and confess their sins, I, their Jesus Christ, I never go back and remind them of their past issues and sins.

My dear children, living a happy marriage doesn’t mean you have to be rich in status but rich in true love, faithful love, forgiving with love, leaving all the anger, hatred, bitterness and resentments of past issues behind, resolving in conversation, peace and love between one another.

I your Jesus Christ, I abundantly bless this special marriage.

My dear children, my Blessed Mother, she is here to converse with you.

Mother Mary

My dear children, I am Mother Mary, the Mother of your Saviour and each one of my children. I continue my Son Jesus Christ’s conversation about a happy marriage [1]. My dear children, I was married to St Joseph. We also encountered dissabores [2], pains, trials and hardships. We also went through wins and failures. We taught our Son Jesus by good example. We prayed together as a family.

My dear little ones, pray the holy Rosary as a family every day. Pray also the Divine Mercy Chaplet. Pray the prayer of St Michael the Archangel, the Apostles Creed and the Memorare. Pray at least one Our Father, three Hail Marys and a Glory Be to the Father in the morning and at night. Yes the holy Rosary is very important, but at least these prayers. I do understand your daily chores, your work, but my dear ones, put my Son Jesus Christ in your lives. Go to Holy Mass every Sunday. Receive my Son Jesus worthy of him by going to Confession regularly. Yes, it does please my Son Jesus if my children come to Holy Mass regularly [3], but we do know and understand that it’s impossible because of their work or difficult timetables. But the ones that can do it: come my dear children, don’t miss this special Sacrament. Teach my little ones all of these prayers − they will grow closer to my Son Jesus Christ. Teach them at their young age, in love not demand, explaining to them how important Jesus Christ is in their lives and how much my Son Jesus loves them, each one of them − there are no favourites.

We are the Holy Family of Nazareth, Mother Mary and St Joseph the Carpenter and my Son Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Entrust yourselves to the Holy Family of Nazareth. I bless you with my Virginal Mantle. I will be your shield of protection at all times.

Pray for the souls of purgatory and the most abandoned ones. These souls will intercede for you in return. They can’t pray for themselves but they can pray for you, for your intentions.

I shall give you a prayer to be recited to entrust yourselves to the Holy Family of Nazareth...


My Holy Family of Nazareth, I ask you this special, unique request. We ...names... enthrone ourselves to the Family of Nazareth. We ask you to intercede in heaven to the Triune God to bring peace, love, unity and understanding in our home, and to our children ...names...

We consecrate our home, our marriage and our children to the Holy Family. Unite us always, as you were, as a family of Nazareth.

Mother Mary, I ask protection with your Divine Mantle. I ask St Joseph to always take care of our possessions, business and work. I surrender all to the Holy Family of Nazareth. Amen.   

Pray one Our Father, one Hail Mary, one Glory Be, then say...

Holy Family of Nazareth, we consecrate our family in your loving care. Amen.


Thank you for responding to my call. Thank you my little one. Relay this message to my children.

My little one, my Father God, he is here to converse with you.

Father God

My little lamb, I your Father God, I am here with you. I thank you for his time to be here with us in heaven. Today you are not so exhausted and we are conversing earlier. Today you went to a big celebration, my people’s 50th wedding anniversary. This is a special day, which my people take for granted in their lives. My little lamb, the readings today at this celebration in my Son Jesus Christ’s Holy Mass, the gospel was about the wedding of Cana, where my Son Jesus Christ did his first miracle. His Mother asked him to come and help these people at their marriage, “There is no more wine,” but my Son Jesus Christ replied, “Woman, this is nothing of my concern.” But my Son Jesus Christ was obedient to his Beloved Mother as he was brought up in a beautiful Holy Family of Nazareth. Yes, the example was from his obedient parents being chosen by me, your Father God. My little lamb, in those days the weddings also had trials and tribulations and Mother Mary didn’t want this couple to be embarrassed. Yes, my people in their marriages must also respect one another, never degrading their wives and vice versa. If they have something to say, to discuss, they must do it privately at their homes (like Mother Mary called her Son to one side, not is front of the guests), where there is love, there is mutual respect.

My child Fernanda, I see how you are asking in your heart for a message for my daughter Tania as she has been asking you about. See, my little lamb, everything at our own time, my Son Jesus’ own time.

My daughter, Tania, I am your Father God; I am here to relay a message through my Son Jesus Christ’s messenger. I have seen your trials, hardships, tribulations, pains, sorrows, tears, fears, worries, wins and failures, divorce and losing your loved ones in the course of your entire life. My child, we here in heaven, we see everything in each one of my people, what you think, your fears and concerns. But my child, Tania, there is a time, a season, for everything, a time of trials and hardships, a time of pain, a time for joy, a time to lose, a time to gain. But nothing passes in my people’s lives without my Son Jesus Christ’s consent. My daughter Tania, I have seen, so has my Son Jesus Christ, how much you have been learning my Son Jesus’ holy words, how you are coming closer to my Son’s Heart, attending my Son Jesus’ Holy Mass, helping with prayers for the needy and the ignorant ones. There is nothing that the Triune God and Mother Mary don’t know or don’t see in my people’s lives. Without hardship and trials there is no growth in my people’s lives – my people become stronger in their faith, love, courage and perseverance to know more profoundly the will of God.

My daughter Tania, I, your Father, I am here to say, do not be concerned or worried about the outcome of tomorrow. When my faithful servants of my Son Jesus Christ serve him with all their hearts, my Son Jesus never forsakes or abandons them – they are carved in the palm of his hands. All that you are going through at the moment, it’s going to be solved in my Son Jesus holy name. All your prayers, Rosaries, novenas and Divine Mercy Chaplets have been received in heaven. We have seen your tears, your despair, despondency, afflictions and fears of tomorrow. Do not become despondent. Soon all is going to come with clarity upon you.

My daughter Tania, my Son Jesus Christ has everything mapped, planned, even before you were born. He is aware of all your sufferings. What has been hidden in the dark, it will come to the light. The desires of your heart, what you desire to know more profoundly about, time will show you with more clarity. The mystery of God cannot be disclosed at certain times, only in my Son’s own time. Pray, trust, soon it will be open for you, the new door will be open soon. It will have a golden handle. This is me your Father God. Prayer moves mountains. You also need to take care of your affairs as you need the daily bread to live. I thank you for all the love and care towards to my Son Jesus Christ. Thank you for coming closer to my Son Jesus’ heart. Thank you for the teachings to your loved ones about us here in heaven and to my youth.

I bless you, I give you my peace, your loved ones and all my people. Amen.

Mother Mary

I your Mother Mary I come to convey to you my daughter Tania: I thank you for all the help given to my children, teaching them about the holy Rosary. All your fears have been taken to the abode of my Son’s Sacred Heart. I will be your shield of protection with my Virginal Mantle in your everyday life, our little ones’ and your family’s. Amen.

Thank you for responding to my call. Amen.

 

[1] For the full conversation, see “Heavenly advice on how to live happily in marriage till death do us part” (25/06/2017) in “Conversations” on www.alpha-omega.org.za.

[2] Portuguese to English translation: disappointments, troubles, unpleasantness

[3] Daily, if possible, as we ask in the Our Father prayer: “Give us this day our supersubstantial bread” (Matthew 6:11).